My friend handed my other friend the shower invitation right in front of me, with no explanation to me. This seemed deliberately designed to be hurtful.

Dear Eric: I have a good friend with whom I get together maybe twice a month or so. We disagree politically, sometimes ...

Her Wedding Invite Threatens to Ruin Everything. ... years to know the kind of emotional turmoil that can come at the hands of someone else’s wedding ... declining both invitations is OK.