Being single by choice is one of the softest forms of strength. I’m not alone because I can’t find love — I’m single because I refuse to accept anything less than what I deserve. I’ve done the work, I know my worth, and I’m not settling for half-effort or half-love. And when a woman says she wants a provider, it’s deeper than money. Provide emotional safety. Provide mental peace. Provide physical presence. Provide consistency, honesty, and effort. That’s the real definition. Until someone can ma

Estrangement doesn’t end because a parent says “just get over it” or “family is everything.” It doesn’t end because they want a holiday photo or because they suddenly feel uncomfortable with the distance. Healing only begins when the people who caused harm become safe enough to come back to. And safety is not sentimental. It’s not performative. It’s not a “we love you and miss you” text. Safety is accountability. Safety is truth-telling. Safety is the end of secrecy, control, gossip, triangulati